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Summer of Joy, Fall of Woe

  • Posted on November 24, 2007 at 4:57 pm

Wow, it’s been forever since I posted! But a lot has been happening IRL, so perhaps I can be excused for my appalling lack of attention to this blog. Perhaps.

First, and foremost, the summer of joy: I sold a story!!!!! My first ever published story, “MarsBound” will appear in the anthology Ages of Wonder edited by Julie E. Czerneda and Rob St. Martin!! It will be published by Daw sometime in 2008.

Then we paid off the house! WHOO HOO! Happy, happy, joy, joy! Dancing in the streets! (Well, on the patio, but that’s outside, so it’s sorta like the streets.)

But then, in August, things took a dark turn. I got sick, for one, with shingles. This is a disease that is hopefully disappearing, since the advent of the Chicken Pox vaccine. You see, when you have Chicken Pox, it gives you a life-time immunity from ever getting it again, but that comes at a price: the virus stays in your system, hibernating in nerve clusters. Shingles is a re-activation of the virus, and–because it’s living in your nerves–can be quite painful. It’s not life-threatening, but if it flares along the nerves in the face, which mine did, it can damage your eye.

Then a previously-crowned tooth broke, requiring a new crown. Then another previously-crowned tooth got an abscess at the root, which required a root canal. Then that tooth broke, too, cracking the root and requiring an extraction and a bridge. All of which cost thousands of dollars, only a small portion of which was covered by insurance.

Then our 28-year-old washer/dryer set started making noise, and then the dryer just quit altogether. So we bought a new set.

The very next day after buying it, our 18 year-old truck had yet another mechanical malfunction, and given the shape it was in, we decided it was time to replace it. So we bought a used truck that was only 8 years old.

We have now used up all of our emergency fund, and are thousands of dollars in the hole on the credit card.

So, of course, when it got cold the furnace started making an awful racket, then stopped kicking on at all. (Although we could still kick it on manually, so we didn’t freeze.) Hundreds more dollars to fix. (Thankfully, though, we didn’t have to replace it, just fix it. But still. Hundreds of dollars!)

Then, after Steve said “Well, there’s not much else that can die on us, right?”– the gods laughed, as they directed that deer to jump in front of our car as we drove up to visit my folks.

Still waiting for the repair estimate from the shop, but the insurance will pay most of it. Less the $500 deductible, of course.

But, hey! I sold a story!!!! So, it’s all good. Sorta. Mostly.

Happy Birthday

  • Posted on November 4, 2005 at 11:36 pm

To me! A half a century of living. Am I an elder yet? AARP thinks so, but I certainly don’t feel wise enough to be an “elder.”

It’s also our anniversary, so I’m taking the day off to spend time with my honey!

Why Do I Blog?

  • Posted on June 14, 2005 at 4:22 pm

Good question. It’s not like I actually expect anyone to even find this blog (although I occasionally mention it on other blogs), let alone actually read most of the entries here. I don’t even have commenting enabled for most of the entries, since the only comments I’ve ever gotten are related to free online gambling or disreputable pharmacuticals.

Originally, my intent was to simply get back into the habit of writing something every day. But my momentum on that was broken when my computer broke down, and I haven’t gotten it back yet (Spring and yardwork played a (more positive) role too). Lately, most of my entries are simply a way to keep track of my thoughts and information I’ve discovered in the course of responding to posts or comments on other blogs. Given that, I suppose it’s time for me to figure out how to use the “track back” function so that anyone who *does* stumble on this site can enjoy the discussion that prompted an entry.

Bu(ll)sh(it) Overload

  • Posted on April 30, 2005 at 12:31 am

I’m suffering from a serious overdose of outrage, coupled with a bad case of spring cleaning. Wish I could take my cleaning skills to the White House, and clean out all the crud there! Meanwhile, a big thanks to skippy the bush kangaroo for the mention! This is a big deal, because skippy’s famous now – got mentioned on “Inside the Blogs” and all…

Thought for the day

  • Posted on March 27, 2005 at 10:59 pm

The best and worst thing about life is that nothing lasts forever.

Conspiracy Theory

  • Posted on March 6, 2005 at 4:11 pm

It’s a conspiracy, I tell ya! First my hard drive goes wonky, will only boot in safe mode – which prevents me from even accessing the internet! Then the repair shop I take it to is _seriously_ understaffed, waiting nearly two weeks just to tell me that, gee, maybe they should just wipe the hard drive and reinstall the operating system. This after I *specifically* asked them to find out if it was the hard drive that was bad, or something ON the hard drive – because re-installing the operating system on a bad hard drive will simply cost me $60, and not solve the problem. Clearly, stealthily installing incompetent techs in a previously stellar repair shop is part of the conspiracy, too.

Bad-Worse-Worst Isn’t Enough

  • Posted on February 21, 2005 at 6:42 pm

We need a couple of more comparatives in the string when it comes to health status. For instance, having a cold is clearly “bad,” having a fatal incurable disease is obviously “worst.” But there are at least two steps, and maybe three, in between those. Having the flu is pretty much the “worse” compared to the cold’s “bad,” but there are diseases that are curable, but still worse than the flu. Some because they’re longer-lasting, or even more debilitating while you have them, but even worse than that are ones that do long-lasting damage to the body that either can’t be repaired, or takes years to repair. We need a comparative for each, I think. I nominate “worser” and “worserer.”

So, I’m very, very glad I don’t have something worser or worserer. But, I’d rather have a cold than this flu. Actually I’d rather have neither, but that’s a whole different set of comparatives – “good-better-best,” and I think I’ve raved enough. I’ll save that one for when I haven’t got a fever. ;)

Starlings

  • Posted on February 13, 2005 at 4:33 pm

Starlings are the biker gangs of the bird world.

They swoop down in a pack, take over the yard, fight with each other and everybody else, help themselves to whatever they want, then take off in an uproar, leaving all the other birds to survey the damage and shake their heads, wondering, “what the heck was *that* all about?”

When a “Good Deal” Isn’t

  • Posted on February 11, 2005 at 11:35 pm

A few months ago, I got a *great* deal on a used computer. Or, maybe not.

I’m back. My hard drive isn’t. It was left behind – without a shred of remorse or pity – at the repair shop. Traded in on a nice, new, shiny hard drive. One that actually works for a living.

Still working on re-installing my programs, but on the off chance somebody actually reads this blog and is wondering whether Bullshit‘s jack-booted Patriot Police finally dragged me off in their shiny black helicopters… well, no. Apparently my nattering nabobishness isn’t dangerous enough to waste the gas on.

The moral of the story: Back up your data. Often. *Especially* if you got a “great deal.”

Deciding What To Wear, Redux

  • Posted on January 28, 2005 at 2:54 pm

Wow. Twice in one month! That’s got to be a record of some sort. Note, this is not a complaint; we like it that way. More frequent social events make the Deciding What To Wear Ceremony even more complicated. That’s especially true now, since tonight’s event includes most of the same people as the dinner three weeks ago. Therefore, I can’t wear the same thing. Also complicating matters is having lost weight – things that looked absolutely smashing last year now hang like so many tents.